Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Halloween: Behind the Masks

When the knock came on the door just as it was getting dark I was taken by surprise when I saw two people about my size staring at me through plastic masks covering their faces. I was around three and it was the first Halloween that I remember.  I remember at that point my mother decorating my face with rouge and lipstick so I would look like a clown; then we went to about a half dozen neighbors for my first “trick or treat” experience.
Nowadays when I open the door there are witches and goblins, ghosts and ghouls, clowns and princesses and stormtroopers and super heroes. Masks cover their faces as they portray some fictional character they have come to know.
I know there are some who don’t like Halloween. I’ve heard preachers preach against dressing up as ghosts, witches and monsters. What effect will this have on our kids! Well, in my opinion, if it means anything, not much. You see I’ve been passing out candy now for close to fifty years, about the time I was too old to go collecting it for myself. I have greeted many a ghost, skeleton, princess, pumpkin, monster and such at the door. Some of them have been scary and ugly while others have been cute or pretty. What I’ve found out that almost without exception, no matter how they looked on the outside every one of them told me “thank you” when I put candy in their bag, even the big ones!
You see who we are is not based on our outward appearance it’s what is in our hearts that counts. Without a mirror I can only see myself from the inside, so I don’t really know what you see when you look at me physically. Maybe you see mustard on my mouth, messed up hair or a scar where I had chickenpox as a child. You can see it, I can’t. But no matter how I look on the outside that doesn’t matter as long as you see the true me when I say “thank you”.
Oh wait! Remember the masks? What bothers me much more than Halloween masks are the masks that people wear on Sunday morning. These are those that have a pretty mask on that makes them look like Jesus for a short period of time. Then on Monday morning the mask is removed and they retreat back to the ways of the world.  The face may look okay but the heart has a long way to go.
The word “hypocrite” actually refers to an actor, one who wears a mask. It is someone who is playing a part by looking and acting differently than they are on the inside.
Jesus confronted the Sadducees and Pharisees and told them, "Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean. Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men's bones and everything unclean.  In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.” (Matthew 23:25-28)
If I get right to it, I’d rather be told “thank you” by a ghost or kind witch anytime over the other. Mainly because behind the ugly mask usually lies a beautiful heart.

Thursday, October 13, 2011

One Hour

Courtesy Clker.com
Cade was born this week. Born with a major birth defect his life on this planet would be short; approximately one hour. But for that one hour Cade knew that he was loved by so many people. In that one hour a family was able to pour out their affection to their little boy.

On December 26th of this last year I spent an hour with my mother. She didn’t know me but Kathy and I sat by her and my dad as he held her hand, kissed her and sang to her. Before we left I leaned over kissed her on the forehead and said, “I love you mom.” That was the last hour I would ever spend with her.

An hour seems like such a short time, but to some it’s a lifetime. These two events got me to thinking. How do I spend the hours that God has given me?

Phil Ware illustrated in a sermon not long ago how many days we have with our children before they are grown. We can use the same analogy with life. The average lifespan is 78.7 years as of a 2009 study. That gives us a total of 689,412 hours in our life more or less. I’ll be 64 next month so that gives me around 128,772 hours left on the average, Lord willing. Take from that the fact that sleep, getting ready for bed and getting ready when I get up will take about 9 hours a day or 48,290 hours I have 80,482 hours left. I’ve already used up including the future bedtime hours close to 90 percent of the time God has given me.

So the question is how do we plan to use the hours left that God has given us?

Again, what would you do if you knew you only had one hour left?

Watching TV? Arguing over some silly subject? Complaining? Sleeping?

Or…

Is there someone you’d like to call and tell them you love them?

Is there someone you’ve been working with on a problem that you’d like to help one last time?

Is there someone who isn’t a Christian with whom you’d like to share the gospel?

Is there someone with whom you need to make things right?

Would it be to take care of one final need in the church?

Would it be to be around those that we love and know love us; surrounded with God’s affection and the love of our family and friends.

How often do we wish we could go back and change the last hour with someone? To love more? To encourage more? To change what we said or what we did?

One hour.

Sixty minutes.

Thirty-six hundred seconds.

You know what? This could be our last hour. Any hour could be our last one. So we should make the most of it before the next 3600 seconds have passed. I’ve already spent over 1000 of those 3600 writing this. It’s a short time; then again maybe a lifetime.

Make your next hour count.

Tell someone you love them before it’s too late. Tell someone you care for them before the hour is up. Pick up the phone and call them. Go on Facebook and write on their wall. Email them. Go by to see them. Text them.


But do it before your hour is up. You may never get another chance.

The clock is ticking.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Leave Tomorrow 'Til It Comes


Image from New Line Production of The Nativity Story
Several years ago there was a movie produced entitled “The Nativity Story”. As you can tell by the title this is a recounting of the story of the birth of Jesus. There is one scene in particular that has always stood out to me, mainly because I had always looked at the story as an outside observer but never through the eyes of Mary and Joseph. In this one scene Mary and Joseph have stopped for the evening. They are by a lake cooking a fish they had bought for supper and Joseph has just told Mary what the angel had told him about the conception of the child Mary was carrying.  The young couple, scared about what the future may hold, is sitting talking when Mary asks a question.

Mary: “Do you ever wonder when we will know?”
Joseph: “Know? Know what?”
Mary: “When he is more than just a child? Will it be something he says? A look in his eye?”
Joseph: “I wonder if I will even be able to teach him anything.”

Of course we know how the story unfolds, but to this young couple it was something that they could only wonder about.
Life is that way to all of us. We never know what tomorrow may bring. We never know what will unfold as our story continues. Many of us take life with ease and even flow while others struggle and worry about what will happen next.
There have been many nights that I have opened my eyes at 3:00 a.m. and found myself wide awake. It's in those wee hours of the morning that it often creeps in. It takes me by surprise, but when it does I may lie awake for a good while. I hate it when it comes in. I hate it that it lingers around. I hate it that it often returns night after night. I wish it would go away and sometimes it does. I wish it didn't exist, but it pops its head up at these convenient times. It changes shapes. It changes ways in which it attacks. It's hard to shake off. 
What is it?
Worry! 
We all have things that weigh heavy on our hearts. We have issues in our lives that cause us to be anxious and wonder how we're going to get out of the undesirable place in which we find ourselves. 
Long before "The Lord of the Rings" there was another little animated movie based on the Hobbitt. It was called "The Return of the King". It had several songs sung in the background. One of these was a little song that dealt with worry. It's entitled "Leave Tomorrow 'Til It Comes" by Glen Yarbrough. It's a simple song with a message that tells us to sleep easy; Tomorrow may help us look at things much more differently. 

Leave tomorrow till it comes
Sleep will ease your mind.
With the dawn you'll find
Problems realigned a different way
Than yesterday.
Leave tomorrow till it comes
Time is moving fast.
Don't go pushing past
Endings of the day
Till yesterday.

Tangled dreams unfold
And webs may disappear
Stories are retold
And cloudy thoughts will clear.
Leave tomorrow till it comes
Sleep will ease your mind.
With the dawn you'll find
Problems realigned a different way
Than yesterday,
The key to making it through these times is to remember that “The peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard our hearts in Christ Jesus”. If we do this then we will always know how the story will end.